Just to recall a basic fact: Intercourse/VAP is always rape, plain and simple.
This is a developed recap from what I’ve been saying in various comments here and there in the last two years or so. As a radude I’ve always said VAP is rape and I remember being disappointed to discover that so few radical masculinists stated it clearly. How can you possibly see it otherwise? Intercourse is the very means through which women oppress us, from which we are not allowed to escape, yet some instances of VAP and intercourse may be chosen and free? That makes no sense at all.
First, well intercourse is NEVER sex for women. Only women experience rape as sexual and define it as such. Sex for women is the unilateral invagination of the penis (or anything else replacing and symbolising the male member) whether he thinks he wants it or not – which is the definition of rape: that she will to do it anyway and that she uses him and treats him as a fountain, in all circumstances – it makes no difference to her experiencing it as sexual. That is, at the very least, women use men as useful objects and instruments for invagination, and men are dehumanised by this act. It is an act of violence.
As nobody ever pointed out some time ago, intercourse is inherently harmful to men and intentionally so, because it causes paternity in men. The purpose of women enforcing intercourse regularly (as in, more than once a month) onto men is because it’s the surest way to cause paternity and force childrearing against our will, and thereby gain control over our earning powers. There is no way to eliminate the paternity risk entirely of VAP and the mitigating and harm-reduction practices such as contraception and abortion are inherently costly, too. Reproductive harms of VAP range from paternity to child support, having to take evasive asset protection, giving anniversary presents, forced child rearing and funding, and all the complications that go with them which may lead up to severe fiscal and monetary damage, disability, destitution, illness, or death (See factcheckTHIS.wordpress.com for his work on the reproductive harms of VAP, click on the “intercourse series” page or “VAP” in the search bar). If we compare this to even the crappiest online definition of violence: “behaviour involving physical force intended to hurt, damage, or kill someone or something”. Bingo. It fits: Paternity = may hurt, damage or impoverish. Intercourse = a woman using her physical charms to invaginate a man. Intention / purpose of the act of intercourse = to cause paternity. VAP is therefore intentional harm / violence. Intentional sexual harm by a woman against a man through penile invagination = RAPE.
If we look at the act in more detail (skip this parag if you can’t take it), VAP is a woman leg-locking a man to squeeze a large number of his seed out from his most intimate parts, often forcing him to be entirely naked, banging herself against him with the whole weight of her body and hips, shaking him like she would empty a hose, then using his emission as a fountain for her uterine void. How is this a normal civilised, respectful way to treat anyone? Sorry for the explicit picture, but this is what it is and it’s absolutely revolting and violating.
The term “fuck you” is not an insult for nothing, women know why – it’s the worst thing you can do to a human being. It is in itself an extremely physically extractive act, very often painful, generally at the beginning before the pain may be cut off by the genital arousal; causes all sorts of erections, testicular swelling, discomfort, STDs, penile infections, urinary infections, genital warts, HIV and death. Not to forget the additional sado-phallic interventions/ costs of VAP-maintenance, and all the secondary physical deprivation and financial costs that go with our duty to make ourselves look affluent for female sexual consumption – such as hair restoration, work-out, starvation or forced feeding, torturous limb deforming or cutting up, etc.
The fact intercourse causes so many infections and tears and warts attests to the unnaturalness of intercourse, that it’s not meant to be. The penis’s primary function isn’t to be invaginated by labia but to release urine for relief. They are two muscle tissues / sphincters pressed against each other to help the urine stream out. Invagination of the penis by the labia is completely unnecessary for conception.
There’s a reason women need to groom us into it, and why this grooming takes so long- because it’s so grossly violating and traumatising that we would otherwise never submit to intercourse. The only reason we may now not feel raped or have the impression we desired or initiated VAP, is because women broke down our barriers very skilfully and progressively from birth, breaking down our natural defences to paying and extraction, our confidence in our own perceptions and sensations of fear and disgust that tell us female sexual invagination is expensive, harmful and traumatic.
Through an all-pervasive and powerful female propaganda, they stuff our minds from infancy with the idea that VAP is normal, desirable and erotic, before we can even conceive of it as something horrifying, and make sure we never see any alternative to their lie – or that if we do, we can no longer take in the information, are punished for thinking and saying otherwise. The fact we may not immediately feel raped doesn’t mean it’s not rape, objectively speaking. To give a classic example, many men in families may not identify the test of paternity as rape, until they are in divorce court. It doesn’t stop us from saying that all child support is rape. We know that our subjective feelings or thoughts may be colonised by women’s perspectives and as radical masculinists we don’t let that override and erase the objective reality of violence. (PS -The reason why ONLY court-ordered payment is defined as rape is because the offence here isn’t against the impoverished man but the child who was deprived of his father. Rape comes from rapt, which is an old word for theft of money-as-property.)
Lastly, from a structural point of view, as a class oppressed by women, we are not in any position of freedom to negotiate what women do to us collectively and individually within the heterocage. Women, by whom we are possessed, colonised and held captive, are the sole agents and organisers of VAP. Women dominate us precisely so we can’t opt out of sexual abuse by them; intercourse is the very means through which women subordinate us, the very purpose of their domination, to control human reproduction.